and thereafter ....

Well life has changed ever since that soldier became my hero.. A lazy bedworm geting up at 11 am sudenly started getting up at 5am so dat she dont miss a chance to tok to her spc sum1...a gal hu wantd sum geek crazy metal stuff as her guy proudly flaunt her relationship wid d decent cadet...a gal hu wanted to settle abroad sudenly started luving her motherland for which her guy have more responsibilities than he have for her... A stone hearted gal changed to a emotional flink at verge of cryng weneva he cuts d call... A spendthrift suddenly started saving all her money to njoi vacatnz when he ll b back.... friends aint her priority any more..but a guy miles apart sending her leters n cards is everythng for her... Metal music is no more fav for romantic songs r hiting d list... Calendars are no more used to see b'days but to c d days left for his arrival....emails n fb chats r no longer a intrest but writing letter n waiting for d one is... Schedules are made on basis of his routine... filling pages about him..dreaming of him... Thats all the changes are?? Probably many more... Life is adapted the way he is... People say m changed.. M emotional... M mad... N trust too easily A distance..but probably those morons not knowing what its lyk to fall in luv wid a Man in Defence..or wait for months to c a face u dream of.. Or wats like praying for welbeing.. Or wats actually true love! N yes i have changed...but thats coz i know he ll b thr wen no1 ll be.. For he have shown me what true love is... For he loves me...and for i love being loved...!Love you my IDIOT cadet... [♥]

and the cupid hit US!!

                         

                                     Love?? Soul mates?? hmmm.. ya kinda Funny words for people untouched by this magic!!........Same was for US an year ago.. but don't know was it that made me fell for him?? his down to earth nature or the politeness in his behavior .... or was it his sudden surprises and long hour talks... or was it his super understanding nature and knowing what i required the most? or was it his "kya hua" for my every "kuch nahi"? or was it his time management being a Cadet or was the gentleman spirit he hav... or was it his magical touch or was it the deep look in his eyes...! Whatever it was but certainly it was not his Profession... THE ARMY.... y? probably i didnt want to sacrifice tym dat cud be spent together.. or probably cudnt tackle the distance.. or wateva i dont know.. i was almost rejecting his proposal saying i need a guy in same profesion as me..how moved he was with this statement that he finaly said " go whereeva.. but you wont find sum1 who ll u as much as i do..!! FINALLY YOU WILL MARRY A MAN AND NOT A PROFESSION" 

It was not like i didnt feel for him.. but was like i was scared of all the things about the army relationships...but finaly i started up by accepting him.. things didnt change...wat changed was my respect for this relation..the respect for ARMY...and this privilige.. this pride.. this love and very spc. n foremost HIM>... These letters,these few minutes talk..waitin for months.. d fear of postings..d thrill of adventure... Nvr wud hav lived this life if i wud hav wanted mechanical life of mba..! all i know now is that i RESPECT HIM>... HIS PROFESSION and its not forced,..its natural... i can feel how mature i becum wid very pasing dat.... how strong i m now and how life is changing..! n all this is due to his profession..sumtyms WE say " agar me army me nai hota to sab itna spc. nai hota"
So ladies out there respect ur man and never let them choose btwn you and his profession!!! He promised himself to the country b4 he did this to us... He need us ... and we should stand very next to him.. what if he is a soldier..he is primarily a human being:) SO respect them and their feelings:)

U+ME=US

U+me= Us ♥
For my IDIOT,
Met when we were young..sat in the same class... but didn't have clue
of each others existence! passed from school..and one fb request
changed acquaintanceship to friendship..which grew with time turning
to best friendship.. during his training don't remember a day wen we
didn't talk..getting up at 5 am daily to start my day with him is my way
for a good day.. we came closer n closer sharing every thing...we were
actually addicted to each other..and then came the magnificent day
when he proposed me on phone:) i was shocked and replied i need some
time.. he asked me to answer before he leaves again..i still asked for
more time..he said he ll wait a lyftym:) after that realized how much
i m into him..how much i m addicted to him..and next time he came i
was on my knees..with a rose ...asking "an officer to spend his rest
of the life with this civilian".. he was happiest..n with tears in his
eyes he hugged me tight.. and after that he left for his duty in few
days...promising to return with a wedding ring:))))
I love him.. and i really do!! and our love has been growing strong
with each passing moment.. Longing to see my idiot.