and the cupid hit US!!

                         

                                     Love?? Soul mates?? hmmm.. ya kinda Funny words for people untouched by this magic!!........Same was for US an year ago.. but don't know was it that made me fell for him?? his down to earth nature or the politeness in his behavior .... or was it his sudden surprises and long hour talks... or was it his super understanding nature and knowing what i required the most? or was it his "kya hua" for my every "kuch nahi"? or was it his time management being a Cadet or was the gentleman spirit he hav... or was it his magical touch or was it the deep look in his eyes...! Whatever it was but certainly it was not his Profession... THE ARMY.... y? probably i didnt want to sacrifice tym dat cud be spent together.. or probably cudnt tackle the distance.. or wateva i dont know.. i was almost rejecting his proposal saying i need a guy in same profesion as me..how moved he was with this statement that he finaly said " go whereeva.. but you wont find sum1 who ll u as much as i do..!! FINALLY YOU WILL MARRY A MAN AND NOT A PROFESSION" 

It was not like i didnt feel for him.. but was like i was scared of all the things about the army relationships...but finaly i started up by accepting him.. things didnt change...wat changed was my respect for this relation..the respect for ARMY...and this privilige.. this pride.. this love and very spc. n foremost HIM>... These letters,these few minutes talk..waitin for months.. d fear of postings..d thrill of adventure... Nvr wud hav lived this life if i wud hav wanted mechanical life of mba..! all i know now is that i RESPECT HIM>... HIS PROFESSION and its not forced,..its natural... i can feel how mature i becum wid very pasing dat.... how strong i m now and how life is changing..! n all this is due to his profession..sumtyms WE say " agar me army me nai hota to sab itna spc. nai hota"
So ladies out there respect ur man and never let them choose btwn you and his profession!!! He promised himself to the country b4 he did this to us... He need us ... and we should stand very next to him.. what if he is a soldier..he is primarily a human being:) SO respect them and their feelings:)